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We remember moments…

“We do not remember days, we remember moments. The richness of life lies in memories we have forgotten.”

This quote is from Cesare Pavese (1908 – 1950), who was an Italian poet and translator. With children heading back to school, I am trying to remember all the moments that made our summer wonderful. Pavese is suggesting we won’t retain the specifics but more the feel of past days. But I have a trick – I keep journals for the kids so some of those moments that seemed so funny or sweet at the time can still be brought back. That helps but the start of their first year of school is still bittersweet…

The French Way

Il ne faut jamais dire “fontaine, je ne boirai pas de ton eau.”

In America, we’ve heard the saying “never say never” so I had to laugh when my French language calendar showed how the French would say it. This sentence literally means, “You must never say ‘fountain, I won’t drink your water’.” Of course it’s not any sillier than some of our sayings such as “don’t throw the baby out with the bathwater,” “spill the beans,” or “tongue-in-cheek.” We’ve used idioms without thinking about them until we had kids – now we see how silly their literal meanings can be. Au revoir!

Weekend Words: Fall Already ?

The winds will blow their own freshness into you,
and the storms their energy,
while cares will drop away from you
like the leaves of Autumn.

It is cooler here in Central Oregon this morning along with that fall descriptor “crisp” and it’s hard to think summer is actually leaving. The hummingbirds are leaving, the fawn’s spots are gone, and soon we’ll hear the geese honk. John Muir loved all the seasons and so do I – however the transition is bittersweet at first.

Palin who ?

“The Vice President is a heartbeat away from becoming President, so to choose someone with not one hour’s worth of experience on national issues is a dangerous choice.”

Obviously Senator Barbara Boxer is concerned with McCain’s choice as Vice President. Governor Sarah Palin, who has held that office less than two years, was plucked from obscurity because McCain thinks she will help him get elected to the White House — not because he thinks she will be a good president if the 72-year old has a heart attack and dies. He actually cares more about getting himself into the Oval Office than how America would fare should the inexperienced Palin become president.

Palin introduced herself with, “I was just your average hockey mom in Alaska.” Let’s hope, should McCain get elected, that he is a very healthy man.

The Power of Speech

Speech is power: speech is to persuade, to convert, to compel

We’re hearing an awful lot of speeches at these political conventions followed by a lot of opinions about the quality of those speeches. So what makes a good one? Ralph Waldo Emerson said the purpose is to persuade.

Just thinking about the spotlight of history you’d be stepping into to make a convention speech would make the most seasoned person nervous. As Jerry Seinfeld points out, most people are nervous about speaking to a much smaller audience:

According to most studies, people’s number one fear is public speaking. Number two is death. Death is number two. Does that sound right? This means to the average person, if you go to a funeral, you’re better off in the casket than doing the eulogy.

Convention’s Unscripted Sentence

“What city are you in daddy?”

There were many moving sentences at last night’s Democratic National Convention – from Edward Kennedy saying nothing (not even cancer) would keep him away, to Michelle Obama talking about the American dream. But I liked what was probably the only unscripted moment of the evening – little Sasha asking the presumptive nominee where he was. This can’t have been a “normal” year for the Obama’s two girls with all the cameras, late nights and traveling. But then normal people don’t make history.

A Tree Grows in Brooklyn

“A profoundly moving novel, and an honest and true one. It cuts right to the heart of life…If you miss A Tree Grows in Brooklyn you will deny yourself a rich experience…It is a poignant and deeply understanding story of childhood and family relationships.”

So said an old New York Times book review of a classic I have somehow missed. But no more… it is next on my book shelf. Sometimes it’s hard for books on “must read” lists to live up to their hype. But I don’t think this best-seller (published in 1943) will disappoint. Have you read it?

Weekend Words: Miles Davis

Sometimes you have to play a long time to be able to play like yourself.

American musician Miles Davis (1926-1991) said that about the cool jazz he played but I think it pertains to other creative pursuits too. I doubt painters have an individual style with the first brushstroke. And I know it takes experience to find your voice as a writer.

Sunday mornings are usually slow and lazy… and Davis’ Kind of Blue set the perfect mood. Davis’ influential Blue is the best-selling jazz album of all time — something that he could only accomplish when he began to play like himself.

Last of Summer Reads

There’s still a few more days of summer to grab and book and settle in your beach chair for an afternoon read. However, in the New York Times Newly Released, it lists books released this month that are far from breezy.

“Everybody suffers, but Americans have the peculiar delusion that they’re exempt from suffering.”

This is Peter Trachtenberg’s introduction to The Book of Calamities: Five Questions about Suffering and Its Meaning. If this sounds a bit too heavy for a summer read, the Times recommends the more hopeful expatriate fiction This Must Be the Place by Anna Winger. Do the weight of the subjects you read follow the thermometer and vacations?

Shoe Addicts Anonymous

“I still have my feet on the ground, I just wear better shoes.”

Taking a break from politics today (even though it would be fun to comment on John McCain not knowing how many homes he owns), to blog about the frivolous – shoes! Oprah Winfrey said that sentence and she ought to know since she can afford the fanciest designer shoes in the world. I’m reading a novel titled Shoe Addicts Anonymous by Beth Harbison that is just the right kind of frothy fun after a day filled with five-year olds and writing deadlines. As one reviewer put it, Harbison’s book has “heart and sole.” I think footwear lust comes from not needing to worry about size – can anyone else explain this passion?